life

It’s a colorful dream, isn’t?

4/07/2017

17 years old

In Taiwan, so-called tech-savvy teenagers like those in different countries do boast in their own blogs generally. He used to be one of them, playing the fancy stuff with his friends.

Being bookish was definitely not the only option for him. He was very good at sports and made a wonderful academic achievement, a popular one among his friends. No one gave it a doubt about his bright future. Surely he could go to any national university of good reputation if he wanted to.

He did not tolerate laziness or waste of time. He was aware of the necessity of self-esteem and self-discipline. He was able to hit the jackpot, which helped him to approach what he expected himself to be at school. He was able to pick up the essential information with very little effort by listening but giving full and close attention.

Besides, he really enjoyed learning and happily collected knowledge in his remarkable memories. The major or big concern for him was to reach a firm decision about what ability and talent he did have and what major he should study at a national prestigious college before graduation from senior high school.

sky dive

Things between his parents started bothering him. He needed not to be offered the lowdown on what was going on. He heard the quarrels between them and the loud noise his mother made, chopping on the cutting board with a knife in the kitchen whenever his father left home some nights.

When his parents laughed at each other and told him that they planned to go to a movie. He was thrilled about the smiles and happiness shinning on their faces. He volunteered gladly to buy the dinner boxes for his parents and promised to wait for them to have the dinner together on that Saturday.

The sudden loss of his parents in the car accident, who passed away before being carried into the ER, made him feel emptiness. Friends were sympathetic, but he didn’t tap out a text back to any of his good friends after he read the messages from his friends. There was no drama and no oversharing between him and his friends because he thoughts none of them really understood. He learned quickly and was good at sidetracking the exhausting conversations about family or parents. It was not only a setback to see how strong he was, but one turned his life upside down.

He wished he had been gone with them and not left alone with endless consolations or care from others. It was too much for him to carry on but he denied the desperate need to allow someone to relieve him of the burden on his shoulders. It was the sorrows that accompanied with him. He was laughing in his dream where he joined his parents, and was woken instantly by the alertness of the cruel fact – that he was a lonely soul even without a sibling. The fear of falling back into a hazy sleep in which he might be falling apart was a terror to him. 

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There was something he was needed to face that was inheritance. The sum of money his father borrowed for working capital from the banks was too big and the property including the house and the land couldn’t cover it. His uncle helped him to deal with giving up the inheritance, which has a two-month time limit, according to Article 1138 of the Civil Code. Otherwise there would be a lot debts waiting for him as an only child to pay back to the banks.
   
He should have equipped himself with being blunt to ignore the hurt from all the troubles brought by the accident. He lashed out at the thoughts – that he had been abandoned. He told himself that there must have some adapting to be going on even though he had no one at his back anymore.

The worst was that he did not know wherever life took him. But there was only way left for him just to keep going on no matter what might occurr on the path he was walking on.

He was so irritated by the raised tuition policy and the non-stop raised costs of the daily life that he formed a habit to bite his nails to red stubs unconsciously. One of his teachers noticed and believed it might be a significant symptom of a worry-aholic, who tried to break his habit of planning every step of his life on his own. She did help him and he convinced himself to welcome the help from her and the parents of his friends who willingly looked for part-time jobs at night or breaks for him.

He was on his own right after he turned 17. It was priority number one for him to survive and go on higher education. Then he learned that preparation was the key to success.

* According to Taxation Administration, the revised inheritance tax exemption has been active from the year of 2015 up to NT$ 12,000,000, around US$ 400,000 (Ministry of Finance, April 6, 2017). If the decedent's estate is valued more than the applicable exemption amount, the inheritance tax is needed to pay after the amount of exemption is deducted. In addition to that, the inheritance taxes have to be paid before one receives it within 6 months, started from the decease date of the decedent.
* According to Ministry of Labor (January 1, 2017), the hour pay for a part-time worker is NT$ 133, around US$ 4.

* The employer shall not hire one who is under the age of 15 according the Articles 44 – 48 and Article 64 of Labor Code. 


71 years old

He is definitely stubborn as a mule everyone believes. He doesn’t care it too much. He leads a life fully and does not regret what he has done. Working has been the lifesaver for him and still is.

There are only a few could gain the title of an emeritus professor, and he is one of them. The audience would run the plaudits after he is invited to give a speech once for a while. He enjoys the relaxing life style and he acts not like one of those retirees who keep doing the same thing, day after day, with no hope of a different outcome.

He slumps down in that cozy sofa and he never feels his body stiff but he is pretty comfy after a long walk every other day. His heart racing steadily comforts and promises him that he can luxuriously enjoy the life, not long but enough time. He has no signs of degeneration to complain about. He is still in good physical shape he is kind of proud of consciously. A health check yearly is the time when he needs to go to the hospital. He tries to stay healthy, avoiding going to the hospital of which the scents has left on his memories.

sunset

One of his interests in reading is the topic on human natures which scrutinizes the rise and fall of emotions of a being. The vivid moments in his youth are always in his mind – that he realized the nature of goodness showing him generously when he was in the depths of despair and in the need of help ridding him of awkwardness and poverty.

He is pleased with listening to a piece of music, which seems a sedative for him, especially when he is lying perfectly still on the bed and his chest slowly rising and falling before getting lost in his dreams.

Time hasn’t chipped away at his confidence he built up since he was very young and he believes this is of importance to keep him moving on without being struck down by the so-called fate but with a promising hope. He hardly reveals anything personal in conversations with his acquaintances or colleagues.

He has no intention to try or get himself into that unconditional love or something like that with women. One might think there’s nothing mainstream about him. He is such a single mind and is matter-of-fact. He still has dates with women on and off without age limit. He asks nothing really but is content with just spending a lovely time with them. He is also very fond of a short break chatting with never-met-friends on different websites.

He admits that he is not one for socializing, and keeps things to himself. He has been as inconspicuous as possible after he’s lived through the years on alone. He didn’t worry about if his colleagues pictured him too black or got him wrong before being thoroughly understood when he worked with them. He gets his friends off his back, but his relationship with them seems very solid. He likes to meet or visit them whenever the time is scheduled. He always needs to do things step by step in an acute process. He has stuck to a routine and a surprise is entirely unwelcome to him. 

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Being single, he’s created a near-perfect exit strategy at the end of his life if he can manage on his own. He’s learned it more than five decades ago that preparation is the key to make a good ending.
  

*The annuity reform bill will be submitted to the Commission of the Legislative Yuan for a review tomorrow morning (April 8th, 2017). This will have a huge impact on the retirees who worked as a teacher, a police officer, a solider or in a governmental department. The monthly retired pay is planned to decrease by 40% to 30% or more in five years depending on the years one worked for and the position taken into account too.  The pension is promised not less than NT$32,000, For example, a full-time retired professor now has about NT$ 100,000 or so monthly, and will receive about NT$ 55,000 after a revision.

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