Can self-discipline resist the temptation to get laid with
others when there is a chance offered during the entire marriage life?
She was of second mind, and she didn’t know what she dealt with this.
The facts
The facts
From the start, he was physically funny and had her in stitches even though he wasn’t her type romantically. Neither of both had any romantic expectations. It turned out she thought he made her feel rather special and was once her milky-way man.
Not long after marriage, she
had to face the hideous -- that he might have the other woman. She thought there
was no room for misunderstanding in a relationship. It wasn’t feasible that he came home late almost on weekdays and was oblivious to her intention to
have a real talk to him.
She always believed that their marriage would last forever if she played well as a good wife and companion too. She hated leaving things to chance, but put efforts to keep a balance between her job and family responsibilities. But, how could it still happen to her to face the embarrassing situation? Didn’t he know that hurt her deeply not only her heart but her dignity too?
If she forgave him
as her parents and parents-in-law expected, she surely couldn’t escape the
hunting of imaging how he got laid with other women, how many there were, or
what they looked like. That explained why she didn’t have sex with him for a
long time. Enough was enough. It might be the reasons that relationship between
both was getting worse too.
That meant she was
married but lived a single life with humiliation. Some of her friends gave her
advice that he was okay because she had everything from him including his
salary, but they missed a very import thing, his loyalty to his wife!
If she divorced him, her mother mentioned whether it was appropriate or not to remarry in her thirties again if she had the custody of her daughter, who might be laughed at by others such as her classmates or neighbors. Another possibility her mother also brought up, not her mother-in-law though, her daughter wasn’t accepted by other family members if she had a second chance to marriage again. They did not know that she was immune to the thrill of finding charming guys around her.
How could she convince herself what happened was not a regular occurrence but a short affair? It was not a truth.
He was definitely lack of good husband’s quality. Between him and his parents it had never been an appropriate topic for them to discuss on his taste in women before marriage. His parents thought he might settle down to be a good husband after marriage and a good father too. But, it was not true.
He was married and there was still some complicated fabric between him and other women. He was able to locate his women when he needed them. They were keener on him than he was on them he could tell. It didn’t matter it seemed to them if dating with him was definitely a blind alley. There was surely a lot of juicy and tacky gossip about his affairs, which he did not care. Why should he?
He was married and there was still some complicated fabric between him and other women. He was able to locate his women when he needed them. They were keener on him than he was on them he could tell. It didn’t matter it seemed to them if dating with him was definitely a blind alley. There was surely a lot of juicy and tacky gossip about his affairs, which he did not care. Why should he?
He was
intelligent, knowledgeable and humorous. Looking fit and handsome in smart suit
was a plus. He hardly failed his boss because he had the power of clear
thinking and directness when he was assigned any project. His job did earn him
a quasi-celebrity status, which played part of his capably fooling around with
other women, after his cash likely. It was a nice thought to transfer his
salary to his wife, a symbol of a responsible husband and father, but he surely
had his credit cards.
He, a chauvinist his wife called him, was balked in her attempt of divorce, which was getting ugly. His wife talked to her and his friends she was unable to have sex life and live with him after all these. They lashed out at each other whenever their daughter stayed with her grandparents. She snapped at her husband out of control. Besides she then had a tendency to analyze his behavior and see motives behind it in the most cynical way.
They already drifted apart after he took it for granted when he lied her once and she forgave him. Then
she realized he had formed a terrible habit to make this vicious circle repeat
itself. She didn’t believe that they could start again and left their troubles
behind them. Their feelings for each other were no long there and less likely
to look forward to a future of theirs.
In retrospect, he finally confessed to his wife that his morality was
all a fa̤ade Рnot a chance to change he admitted, and he also revealed
that she had been entrapped into this
unwillingly. Staring at her, he didn’t know how long she had been waiting for
this sentence.
Marriage in Taiwan
It is said that both men and women have higher life expectancy when married than those who are single or divorced.
People are getting married later in life in Taiwan. The median age of those married for the first time was currently 31.9 for men and 29.5 for women, compared this to the numbers of a decade ago, when the median age was 31 for men and 26.8 for women in 2012 (Statistics Department of Ministry of the Interior, 2013).
The marriage rates in Taiwan like other continues continue to decline for men from 40.82% to 32.11% and for women from 55.53% to 38.7% in ten years, and the rate being single, above the age of 15, was 34.77% in 2012 (Statistics Department of Ministry of the Interior, 2013).
A higher rate of marital stability, due to both a higher age of first marriage as well as the reservation of marriage for the economically stable, might not end in separation, or divorce. But that might be affected by a number of different factors, such as having an affair.
Can it, living apart together in France, be a good way for a married couple, who work and live in different cities? Would this allow your spouse and yourself to feel kind of single again since more freedom and space are given? It should be interesting to find out if this will increase or decrease the divorce rates in a long term?
0 comments